TSTI In The News

TSTI Greening on Baristanet

2010-11-09T04:22:00.000-08:00

Our Greening Certification program was highlighted in Baristanet. Read the article SO Temple Selected for GreenFaith Certification Program here.

Temple Sharey Tefilo-Israel Selected for GreenFaith Certification Program

2010-10-26T18:44:00.000-07:00

Temple Sharey Tefilo-Israel Selected for GreenFaith Certification Program

Temple Sharey Tefilo-Israel

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Tuesday, October 26 2010

How Green is Your House of Worship? Since 2005, the Green Team at Temple Sharey Tefilo-Israel (“TSTI”) has been integrating environmental awareness and activities throughout the synagogue’s physical plant, education programs, worship and rituals and community involvement.

TSTI’s commitment to environmental awareness and education qualified the synagogue to be selected as one of eight Reform congregations in New Jersey, the only synagogue in Essex County, to launch the Greening Reform Judaism Pilot Program. The comprehensive Certification Program helps houses of worship across North America become environmental leaders through initiatives in facilities management, religious education and worship, and environmental justice.

The eight congregations participating in the Pilot Program are Temple Shalom (Aberdeen), Temple Emanu-El (Edison), Barnert Temple (Franklin Lakes), Temple Shaari Emeth (Manalapan), Anshe Emeth Memorial Temple (New Brunswick), Temple Sharey Tefilo-Israel (South Orange), Temple Shalom (Succasunna), and Temple Sinai (Tenafly).

Rabbi Dan Cohen explains, “As one of eight congregations chosen for this program, it is an opportunity for us to do our part in making sustainable changes. We will continue to ‘green’ our synagogue facility and educate our community on as many issues as possible. And perhaps this will encourage us to take action and lobby our administration to push for real change in our approach to energy and environmental policy.”

TSTI is taking part in a wide variety of activities as part of the two-year Certification Program. Upon completion, TSTI will become certified as a GreenFaith Sanctuary and will be looked to as leaders in the Reform Movement’s greening efforts. The Union for Reform Judaism, the Religious Action Center of Reform Judaism and GreenFaith have joined together to launch the Greening Reform Judaism Pilot Program

The team, which is co-chaired by the synagogue members Sue and Phil Hoch, is currently working on an action plan with activities that include:

Continue to green the TSTI facilities’ operations
Conduct environmental justice education and advocacy
Offer environmentally-themed worship services and education programs for all ages
Communicate our work to local media outlets
Take on the additional responsibility of serving as mentors to other Reform Jewish communities nationwide seeking to deepen their engagement with environmentalism.
Send congregational leaders to social action programs at The Union for Reform Judaism to share their experiences with the Reform Movement.

Temple Sharey Tefilo-Israel, a Reform Jewish congregation in South Orange, has long been the spiritual home to a diverse community that welcomes and includes Jews of traditional and non-traditional backgrounds, young families, singles, empty-nesters, multi-generational households and families with non-Jewish spouses or parents.

Temple Sharey Tefilo-Israel offers a wide range of programs and opportunities, from its thriving pre-school and well-regarded elementary, middle and high school religious education to its social action and “Green Team” activities. We welcome all who wish to participate in the traditions and rituals of the Jewish people. Our goal is to perpetuate the religious principles and moral values of Judaism by providing an environment for worship, education, spirituality, and service for our members and the larger community.

GreenFaith is an interfaith coalition for the environment that was founded in 1992. They work with houses of worship, religious schools and people of all faiths to help them become better environmental stewards.

Fulfilling the 613th Commandment

2010-10-25T19:37:00.001-07:00

Temple Sharey Tefilo-Israel “writes” its own Torah scroll
By Edie Sachs
From the South Orange Patch

During the recent Jewish holiday of Simchat Torah, when synagogues read the last words of the Torah and then start again at the beginning, the congregants of Temple Sharey Tefilo-Israel celebrated the occasion in the usual fashion, by dancing and singing with the precious scrolls in their arms. This fall, however, the members of South Orange's Reform synagogue had one more very special Torah to celebrate with—one that they can properly call the work of their own hands.

The Torah is the holy Jewish book containing the Hebrew text of the first five books of the Bible, from Genesis to Deuteronomy. Portions of it are read aloud every week on Shabbat (the Sabbath) as well as on every Jewish holiday. Jewish law specifies that a Torah cannot be mechanically produced; it must be hand-written and must be made entirely of natural materials. Consequently, they can be very expensive; a synagogue might pay as much as $80,000 for a new Torah.

For the last year, Sharey Tefilo-Israel has been running a fundraiser called the L'Dor Vador ("From Generation to Generation") Torah Project, which recently culminated in the creation of the synagogue's own original Torah. Through the generosity of Marjorie and Michael Francis, a new Torah was procured, and a scribe, or sofer in Hebrew, engaged to write the text in the traditional manner with a quill pen. Congregants had the opportunity to purchase portions of text—individual letters, phrases, paragraphs, or longer passages. Then they would participate in a "scribing session" with the scribe, Zerach Greenfield, while he inked the specified text on the parchment. If they wished, participants could put their hand on Greenfield's arm while he wrote to gain an immediate, tactile sense of the process—the next best thing to actually being able to do the writing themselves.

"For the first time in our congregation's history, we are writing a complete Torah—all 304,805 letters and all five books," said Rabbi Ellie Miller, associate rabbi of Temple Sharey Tefilo-Israel. "This was an exceedingly, exceptionally meaningful experience for the entire membership."

Rabbi Miller credited the sofer, Zerach Greenfield, with playing a pivotal role in the ultimate success of the project: "He is an educator as well as a scribe. He met with all the different populations of the synagogue—the religious school, adult and senior groups, the Hebrew High School—and did a fabulous job showing us the process of how a Torah is written, the tools and materials that are used, how the process developed. We all gained so much from this special time."

The project was the idea of the temple's senior rabbi, Rabbi Daniel M. Cohen, who was inspired by the building renovation project taking place at Sharey Tefilo-Israel at the time.

"I thought that it would be very nice if, at the same time we were putting all this energy into the physical structure of the synagogue, we could also build something that would be very close to our hearts as Jews," said Rabbi Cohen. "I wanted us to create a tangible thing that would be an everlasting legacy for the temple, as well as a project that the entire congregation could have the opportunity to participate in."

The fundraiser was overseen by a special committee headed by synagogue members Andrea Baum and Susan Pleasant. A closing ceremony for the project took place on Sunday, September 26, the first day of the synagogue's religious school for the 2010–11 year. According to Rabbi Miller, underwriting opportunities are still available to outfit the new Torah with its customary coverings and ornaments, including the yad, or pointer used by the reader.

Synagogue members who took part in the project gave it enthusiastic reviews. New member Jane Randel said, "Participating in the L'dor Vador Torah Project was an unbelievable way to feel welcomed into the community. Sitting with the scribe, the significance of participating in what will likely be a once in a lifetime opportunity was palpable to my husband and me. Together we created a memory for [our] children."

Robbie and Adam Weissenberg said, "It was a wonderful family experience and enhanced our understanding of the value of Torah. Zerach's tools illuminated the process of the scribe's work and his stories added a wonderful spiritual and historical perspective."

"The 613th and final commandment in the Torah is that each and every Jew should write a new Torah," said Rabbi Miller. "It's amazing to think that our congregation has collectively fulfilled this commandment as defined by the famous medieval scholar Maimonides, who said that 'if one writes or fills in just one letter in a Torah scroll, it is as if they have written it in its entirety.'"

From the NJJN-- S. Orange temple on the run

2010-10-21T11:54:00.000-07:00

S. Orange temple on the run

Rabbi’s regimen leads to 5k event to benefit the environment

by Rabbi Ellie Miller
Special to NJJN

October 20, 2010

Last June Rabbi Daniel Cohen of Temple Sharey Tefilo-Israel in South Orange downloaded a “Couch to 5k” application on his iPhone and began running. He mentioned to me that he had decided to train for a run. My immediate response: “I’ll do it with you,” and we began training together.

The next day, the temple’s preschool director, Carol Paster, joined in. It was then that I said, “Let’s get the whole senior staff to participate. It will be fun, and we will get in shape.”

With that, Team TSTI was born.

The entire senior staff spent the summer training. We began to tell congregants what we were doing and encouraged others to get outside and exercise. The more we talked about it, the more people wanted to run with us. We posted information about training on our recently revamped website,www.TSTI.org, listing the resources we use, some tips, and even the playlists that kept us motivated.

When we began to look for a race it soon became clear: We needed to do our own TSTI run in the streets surrounding the temple. So on Oct. 10 we held our first 5k. We had hoped to get 50 people to take part — but over 100 turned out. (Another 15 volunteered at the registration table and along the route.) The activity was multi-generational and represented a wonderful cross-section of our congregation.

We had a number of goals: We wanted to get people outside and doing something healthy. We made this a run/walk/roll so everyone could participate in their own way, especially since we are an ABLE-awarded congregation.

We wanted to stress protecting the environment and so gave each participant a reusable water bottle so they would stop buying plastic ones. We wanted to celebrate the Earth by planting trees in both the United States and Israel. And we wanted to build community.

Given our environmental concerns — especially in connection with our certification process by the New Brunswick-based Greenfaith organization — we are using half the $2,000 raised to plant trees in Israel, the other half to plant trees in the temple’s new prayer garden.

A huge mazal tov to Declan Wollard of Maplewood, the first participant to return from the run. On the staff side, Rabbi Cohen was the first of the senior staff to finish.

It really was a great day for TSTI, representing who we are: an innovative and diverse congregation devoted to Torah, learning, and the doing of mitzvot — in this case, a healthy one — and committed to our local community and to Israel.

A special thank you to Debbie Bernstein, who did an unbelievable job of arranging everything, and to the South Orange Police Department.

RUNNING WITH THE RABBIS

2010-10-13T06:38:00.000-07:00

Laura Griffin

October 10, 2010

RUNNING WITH THE RABBIS

It wasn't Pamplona, but it was a lot safer, too. More than 100 people came out to run through the streets of South Orange with the rabbis and the senior staff of Temple Sharey Tefilo-Israel Sunday morning. The money raised by TSTI's Run, Walk and Roll will go toward planting trees in Israel and in South Orange, and the race and training helped the rabbis get fit, using a "couch to 5K" training program.

"It was Rabbi Ellie Miller's idea and what a crazy, wacky, awesome idea it was," said Rabbi Daniel Cohen. "It was the first time we've ever done something like this but some way some how we're doing it again."

And so the First Annual TSTI Run, Walk and Roll 5K was born. Congrats to all who inspired and were inspired by the clergy to run.

Rabbis on the Run- from SouthOrangePatch October 5, 2010

2010-10-11T06:21:00.000-07:00

Rabbis on the Run

Temple Sharey Tefilo-Israel answers a fitness challenge with a congregation-wide 5k

By Marcia Worth

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The senior staff of Temple Sharey Tefilo-Israelis investing heavily in sneakers this week. They're preparing for a Sunday 5K run through the streets of South Orange which will raise money to plant trees both in Israel and here in town.

Rabbi Ellie Miller explains the idea of a congregation-wide race was born when Rabbi Dan Cohen began using a "couch to 5K" application on his phone. His goal was fitness by way of running, so the entire staff of TSTI signed on to run with him.

"We figured we would all do a 5K somewhere together in the community sometime in the fall," recalls Cohen. "What we discovered was that many of our congregants wanted to join us so we decided to create our own 5K. We chose to run for the environment this year since we are part of the Greenfaith certification program and the environment is a focus for the year. We also decided to plant trees both in Israel and at home to show our commitment to both communities."

She further notes that this race is "run, walk and roll" to allow everyone to participate, regardless of speed, experience or mobility.

The senior staff have made them accountable to the congregation; they have updated the website to reflect their progress over the last several week of training. They have also grown to know one another ever better; a feature on the site called "Guess the Playlist," asks TSTI folks to match the musical favorites to the staff member. (Is the senior rabbi running to MC Hammer or Lady Gaga? And who's cranking Foo Fighters?)

The race route takes runners through the Montrose neighborhood. The course is fairly flat, except for the Turrell Avenue hill. "We expect that this will be a multi-generational healthy mitzvah," says Cohen. "We are very pleased that we will be walking, running and rolling on the streets of South Orange and, of course, starting and ending at Temple."

The L'Dor Va'Dor Torah Project in the New Jersey Jewish News

2010-10-01T13:00:00.001-07:00

The L'Dor Va'Dor Torah Project in the New Jersey Jewish News

Completing Our New Sefer Torah

2010-09-22T05:53:00.001-07:00

By Temple Sharey Tefilo-Israel
9/16/2010

The congregation and community participated in a yearlong project writing 304,805 letters in a brand new Torah scroll under the guidance of scribe Zerach Greenfield. The Torah writing will be completed and celebrated on Sunday, September 26th at 10 am by the TSTI congregation.
The community is invited to Simchat Torah services at Temple Sharey Tefilo Israel on Friday, October 1st at 7:30 when the congregation will read from the new Torah for the first time.
Photo above: Millburn resident Andrea Baum (right) co-chair of the L’Dor Vador Torah Writing project at Temple Sharey Tefilo-Israel is pictured with Scribe Zerach Greenfield (center) and project co-chair and Maplewood resident Susan Present (left).

Photo credit: Bob Krasner

THE NEIGHBORHOOD FILES: Temple Sharey Tefilo-Israel Welcomes New Cantor

2010-09-13T09:28:00.000-07:00

Temple Sharey Tefilo-Israel Welcomes New Cantor

Cantor Joan Finn has worked and worshipped at the Temple for years, but in May she took on a new role.

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After being invested on May 13, 2010 by the Academy of Jewish Religion, South Orange resident Joan Cantor Finn joins Cantor Ted Aronson as a part-time member of the Temple Sharey Tefilo-Israel (TSTI) clergy team.

Canton Finn, as she is now known, dreamt of being a cantor for a long time, but didn't think it possible. The cheerful grandmother achieved her goal thanks to a healthy dose of self- discipline and determination. She hopes to use her new role to inspire women in the community to pursue their dreams.

"One of the reasons I wanted to become a cantor is that I think it sends a really positive message to the young girls that I work with, and to women in general," says Cantor Finn. "Don't ever stop learning, don't ever think you're too old to try to achieve your dreams."

A cantor is an ordained member of the clergy who, Cantor Finn explains, "has the job of taking the words of both liturgy and sacred texts and putting them to music."

"The cantor actually takes the words, I think, to another level. That addition of music lifts up those words in a new way," she adds. Music can also be a device that helps you remember the words of liturgy or Torah."

As a cantor, it is also her job to hit the notes perfectly, smoothly. "If you are a really proficient singer, you can take those words to such a high level that they really affect people. That's what makes a cantor special and different from a rabbi. I hope that my voice can be used to make people feel and hear the words at a different level."

After all, she jokes, "That's why my parents spent all that money on voice lessons!"

A self-described "Army brat," she was raised all over the world, moving from Virginia to Thailand, Germany, Kansas, and Hawaii, where she attended Punahou High School. (This is the same school as another, slightly more famous alum, President Barack Obama. When she first mentions this, it takes a minute to realize that "Barack," as she refers to him, is the President. She was a few years older, and has no personal memories of the President.)

It was during her college years in Hawaii that she first started singing at Temple Emanuel, the Reform congregation in Honolulu.

"A man with whom I was working at another job at was the music director at a temple. He got me a job at the Temple, which ended up affecting my life pretty radically," she says. "When you're that age, you don't know where life is going to take you."

After working in banking and moving to South Orange 27 years ago, she started to re-discover her love of music, slowly becoming more involved with the music programs at TSTI. She started to perform as a cantorial soloist, under the guidance of Canton Aronson.

When offered the opportunity to lead High Holy Day services six years ago, Cantor Finn was honored. A wide smile spreads across her face as she recalls the experience, saying it is what convinced her to pursue professional cantorial training.

With the support of her husband and friends, Cantor Finn completed her schooling at AJR, a trans-denominational, pluralistic rabbinic and cantorial seminary in Riverdale, NY, in five and a half years. Three days a week, she left her house at 6:00 a.m. to beat the traffic. She'd arrive early, studying for nearly two hours before a full day of classes, returning to South Orange at 7:15 p.m. Throughout, Cantor Finn continued working at the Temple.

"It was much harder than my masters degree," she says, referring to the degree in music performance that she earned from the Manhattan School of Music. Cantor Finn said she never worked harder or spent more hours preparing for classes. "You learn incredible self-discipline."

She credits the friends she has made in the area with helping her stick with it.

"I made really great friends in South Orange, and at school, too. I have an incredible group of women who have been such a positive influence." Her friend, pianist Michele Mestman, of West Orange, played for her at every yearly practicum (where students demonstrate proficiency in the music of a particular service). Professional harpist Stacey Shames, of Maplewood, accompanied her at her senior recital in Three Sephardic Songs of Castelnuevo-Tedesco.

Fellow ordinee, Rabbi Enid Lader, of Cleveland, also played violin and viola in her recitals. Classmate and Hazzan Lisa B. Segal, of Congregation Kolot Chayeinu in Brooklyn, joined Cantor Finn in the service at TSTI in honor of her graduation.

"You don't get through things like this without really strong friendships."

Local rabbis reject one-sided criticism of Israel New group supports two states, opposes unilateral pressure

2010-08-13T11:32:00.000-07:00

by Johanna Ginsberg NJJN Staff Writer August 11, 2010

The original article can be found here on the New Jersey Jewish News website.

More than a dozen local rabbis have signed on to a new group supporting a two-state solution to the Israeli-Palestinian conflict but critical of Jewish groups they consider too quick to criticize the Jewish state.

Founded by a Reform rabbi based in Israel, Rabbis for Israel has collected signatures from over 200 rabbis from all streams across Europe, North America, and Israel. Of the 22 NJ rabbis on board, 15 come from areas covered by NJ Jewish News.

In its mission statement, Rabbis for Israel supports a peace involving “two independent states, a Jewish state of Israel and a Palestinian state, living side by side in peace, security, and prosperity.”

It also acknowledges “that Israel shares some responsibility for the current state of affairs,” presumably the stalled peace process.

At the same time, the petition declares the signatories “are particularly concerned by the manner in which some organizations within the Jewish community, which profess to care for Israel and her well-being, advocate that pressure be applied upon her to make unilateral concessions.”

Although no organizations are named, observers assume the petition is referring to J Street, the two-year-old group that has positioned itself as a left-leaning alternative to the American Israel Public Affairs Committee, or AIPAC.

Rabbi Michael Boyden, a Reform rabbi in Hod HaSharon, said he founded the group in reaction to the coverage of the Gaza flotilla incident and the response it engendered.

“I was appalled not only by the way in which most of the international media covered the story, but also by the fact that some sections of the Jewish community, particularly in North America, seemed to have accepted that version of events and were calling for an end to the blockade of the Gaza Strip while not demonstrating a realistic understanding of Israel’s security needs,” Boyden wrote in an e-mail exchange with NJJN.

“While much was being written about the harsh lot of the Palestinians of Gaza,” he continued, “the citizens of Sderot had been forgotten and the plight of [kidnapped Israeli soldier] Gilad Shalit was simply given a passing nod.”

The mission statement rejects criticism of Israel that does not recognize the Israelis’ right to self-defense and its “real security concerns.”

Much of the statement is directed at Jewish groups it considers one-sided in their criticism of Israel.

“We believe that such advocacy, which results in intransigence and increased demands from the Palestinians, does not advance the cause of peace,” according to the statement. “In discrediting Israel publicly, such organizations not only weaken support for her but also serve the interests of her detractors and enemies.”

Although no organizations are singled out, J Street seems to be on everyone’s mind.

“I will not say I’m opposed to J Street because we have J Street members and leaders at our synagogue, but I find Rabbis for Israel more reflective of my position toward Israel,” said Rabbi Joshua Goldstein of Temple Sha’arey Shalom in Springfield, one of the signers.

“I have observed over the last few years growing numbers of my colleagues who find it necessary to bash or criticize Israel whenever they want. I think we need to put some limits on that,” said Goldstein. He added, “I don’t believe Israel is without blemishes, but in a world where it is so easy to pile on criticism of Israel, I think it is counterproductive.”

Rabbi Joel Abraham of Temple Sholom in Scotch Plains worked on several drafts of the document. “Although, as do many of my colleagues, I agree with many of the ideals of J Street, I do not feel comfortable in how they have presented themselves or that message,” he wrote in an e-mail exchange with NJJN.

“On the other side, I am uncomfortable with the idea that a maximalist Israel must be supported without any dissent. [Rabbis for Israel] says what it believes — in a two-state solution, lays out reasonable expectations of any partners for peace, and asks the critics of the Israeli government to engage in that conversation with the government itself, rather than through and with third parties.”

Rabbi Douglas Sagal of Temple Emanu-El in Westfield is a supporter of both Rabbis for Israel and J Street. He does not see any conflict. “Maybe Rabbis for Israel was formed in part as a response to J Street. But I think J Street serves an important purpose in providing an alternate voice for those who support Israel. I think they have made errors recently, overstating Israel’s culpability. But I find both organizations worthy,” he said.

Sagal said he joined Rabbis for Israel in part because of his “strong personal admiration and respect” for Boyden. “My experience has been that when Rabbi Boyden has something to say about supporting the Jewish state, I find it’s worthwhile to listen.”

Rabbi Daniel Cohen of Temple Sharey Tefilo-Israel in South Orange pointed out that Rabbis for Israel offers a middle ground — one that is often hard to find among Reform rabbis.

“With so much immediate international condemnation of Israel when anything happens, even before the facts are known, the need for public and loud support for Israel that takes a middle road approach is more important than ever,” Cohen said, adding, “We begin from an assumption that we support Israel but are not blindly supportive.”

Rabbis for Israel also urges Muslim and Christian leaders to teach tolerance and Muslim leaders to denounce violent jihad. It urges the international community and media to recognize “that any resolution of the Israeli-Palestinian conflict will demand that Israel’s very real security concerns be addressed, particularly in the light of the key role played by Iran and Syria in arming and training Israel’s enemies.”

Abraham underscored the increased credibility the document has earned simply by having been drafted in Israel. “This is an organization led by an Israeli rabbi who has invited his colleagues from around the world to join together — rather than each community accusing each other of not understanding what it is like to live in Israel or, conversely, to defend Israel from afar.”

Rabbi Laurence Groffman of Temple Sholom of West Essex in Cedar Grove applauds the group’s goal of raising the level of discourse over Israel in the media.

“The message that tends to get out is biased,” said Groffman. “The impression you get is that the reason we have a problem in the Middle East is Israel. ‘If only Israel would not do this or would not do that, we’d have no problem.’ It’s not just Israel is the oppressor and the Palestinians are the victim. Israel is far more complex than that, and we should look at it as the complex situation that it is.”

Groffman likes the idea that Boyden’s organization is for rabbis of all stripes. “Having a rabbinic organization standing for Israel makes a certain impression,” he said.

Of the 15 in the NJJN catchment areas, however, just two are Conservative and none are Orthodox; the rest are Reform.

Goldstein said that Rabbis for Israel offers “a voice we didn’t hear expressing solidarity for Israel. It’s a model for the rest of the community to emulate.”

So far, Rabbis for Israel is a mission statement with signatories, but Boyden said the group is in the midst of establishing a forum for those with a centrist view, and future plans include disseminating information and developing an advocacy program based on its beliefs.

Rabbis for Israel: Mission Statement

Preamble

Rabbis for Israel is a grassroots movement of rabbis from all streams, who are deeply concerned by the drift in much of world opinion that has made it legitimate to single out Israel for blame and censure in respect of the Israeli/Palestinian conflict.

While we recognize that Israel shares some responsibility for the current state of affairs, we believe that the roots of the conflict and its broader dimensions are much more complex than is generally presented.

Attempts by Israel's detractors to lay the blame for the lack of progress toward peace at her door while pressing her alone to make concessions are not only unjustified, but frequently motivated by political interests, naivety, ignorance, misinformation or even anti-Semitism.

We are particularly concerned by the manner in which some organizations within the Jewish community, which profess to care for Israel and her well-being, advocate that pressure be applied upon her to make unilateral concessions. Similar demands are not made of the Palestinians to respond in kind, if at all. We believe that such advocacy, which results in intransigence and increased demands from the Palestinians, does not advance the cause of peace. In discrediting Israel publicly, such organizations not only weaken support for her but also serve the interests of her detractors and enemies.

At a time when it has become fashionable to castigate Israel for unrest in the Middle East and elsewhere, we appeal to Jews everywhere to respond to criticism of Israel with support and to advocate on her behalf.

Mission Statement

A Lasting and Secure Peace for Israel

We, the undersigned, believe that Israel has a legitimate right to exist as a sovereign, democratic Jewish state in the historic homeland of the Jewish people. We support a peaceful and just resolution to the Israeli/Palestinian conflict that will recognize two independent states, a Jewish state of Israel and a Palestinian state, living side by side in peace, security and prosperity.

We call upon the Arab and Muslim world to accept unequivocally and publicly Israel's permanent right to exist in peace.

Sovereignty

We believe that any resolution of the Israeli/Palestinian conflict will require Israel to cede sovereignty over most of the West Bank and will need to address the aspirations of both Israelis and Palestinians concerning Jerusalem, a city that is holy to three religions.

Palestinian claims for a right of return will need to find their resolution within the Palestinian state once established.

Teaching Tolerance and Peace

We call upon Muslim and Christian religious leaders to establish frameworks in their own communities to oppose messages of hatred and violence against Israel, to work toward developing a spirit of mutual understanding, tolerance and peace with Jews, and to encourage the strengthening of peaceful relationships and partnerships between Israelis and Palestinians.

We call upon the Palestinian Authority, Hamas and their agents to cease using the media, mosques and textbooks to foster and incite hatred against Israel and the Jewish People.

Support for Israel

We call upon leaders in the Jewish community to support Israel in their public statements and express any concerns they may have with great caution and considerable forethought given the manner in which their views are likely to be manipulated to Israel's detriment by those who use every opportunity to vilify her.

The Use of Violence

We call upon Palestinian political and religious leaders to denounce the use of violent Jihad, and demand that the Palestinian Authority, Hamas and their agents cease all forms of support, complicity and participation in or glorification of terrorist activities.

Moral Equivalency

We recognize Israel's moral right to defend her citizens against attacks emanating from the Palestinian territories. To demand that Israel forgo the right to defend her citizens in order to improve the lot of the Palestinians, without the latter abandoning their call for violent resistance, is neither moral nor ethical. As such, we reject the moral equivalency that some would draw between the suffering of the Palestinians and the lasting psychological trauma not to mention literal endangerment of life with which Israelis have to contend.

Israel’s Defense

We call upon the international community and media to recognize that any resolution of the Israeli/Palestinian conflict will demand that Israel's very real security concerns be addressed, particularly in the light of the key role played by Iran and Syria in arming and training Israel's enemies.

We urge rabbis who agree with this statement to sign on to it, demonstrating their support for a reasonable solution to the Israeli/Palestinian conflict.

Fitting In (August 12, 2010)

2010-08-13T11:12:00.000-07:00

by Johanna Ginsberg NJJN Staff Writer August 11, 2010

When Brian Schlesinger of Livingston pulled his three children, Brett, Shay, and Andie, out of Jewish day school in 2007, he enrolled them in the religious school of his synagogue, the Jewish Learning Center at Congregation Beth El in South Orange.

Brett was 12, Shay was nine, and Andie was seven. All had attended Solomon Schechter Day School of Essex and Union, a full-time school that offers a dual curriculum of secular and Judaic studies.

“For Brett it was really not too big of an issue because he was so close to bar mitzva age,” said Schlesinger. “He basically went right into bar mitzva lessons shortly after leaving Schechter and then into Prozdor,” the Rebecca and Israel Ivry High School supplementary program for youngsters in seventh through 12th grade sponsored by the Jewish Theological Seminary.

On the other hand, “Shay and Andie experienced something different since they were much younger,” their father said. “They have lost so much of what they learned.”

Every year, a handful of students will leave any day school and enroll in public school. SSDS of Essex and Union has recorded an attrition rate of about seven percent this year (lower than its more typical 10 percent). The Nathan Bohrer-Abraham Kaufman Hebrew Academy of Morris County in Randolph has lost seven students this year. (HAMC also reported an influx of six youngsters transferring from public schools, a phenomenon not experienced at Schechter.)

Students leave day schools for any number of reasons, including finances, social reasons, and learning styles. How do they continue their religious education? Can these students, with a Jewish educational background so different from that of their religious-school peers, be integrated into that community successfully?

As Julie Wohl, director of the religious school at Oheb Shalom Congregation in South Orange acknowledged, “Even two or three new students with a Schechter education create logistical and educational challenges.”

Most religious-school principals are quick to say they can accommodate students who transfer from day schools. They focus first on Hebrew language, meeting the more advanced skills of the average day school student. Many say in other areas, the challenges are not as steep as might be imagined.

Wohl offers day school students an enrichment Hebrew course and group study that involves both teacher-led and independent study. “We schedule all of our Hebrew classes to run at the same time so that students can be pulled out, tutored, or moved around to best meet their learning needs,” she said.

Rena Casser, education director of B’nai Shalom in West Orange, said her school also offers Hebrew at a variety of levels.

“Because we have a leveled Hebrew program, there is really no difficulty in having the day school kids fit in,” she wrote in an e-mail exchange with NJJN. “I have had several in the past and have a few in the coming year as well. I test the children privately to see what they know and what they need help on.”

Temple Sharey Tefilo-Israel, also in South Orange, launched a Hebrew enrichment program in January to help nurture students in third through sixth grades who are more advanced than other students in the language. It is modeled on an Israeli ulpan, or Hebrew-immersion model, with a dedicated instructor.

“These particular students have either come to TSTI from day schools, have one or more Hebrew-speaking parents, or have been identified by teachers in previous years to be ideal candidates for this advanced class,” said religious school director Pia Kutten.

Temple Beth Shalom in Livingston employs teachers from SSDS and uses Tal Am, the same Hebrew curriculum used by the day school.

Educational director Leah Beker works with the Schechter kids who come to Beth Shalom’s religious school. Nearly all of her teachers work at Schechter during the day. And, like Kutten, she has a dedicated teacher assigned to work with the more advanced students.

“We can continue with the kids exactly where they left off in day school,” Beker said. She recalled that during the 2009-10 school year, she had one student who had transferred from Joseph Kushner Hebrew Academy in Livingston and four from Schechter.

The bigger picture

Many of the directors pointed out that there are fewer curricular challenges when it comes to the rest of the program, including prayer. For example, while day schools focus on weekday prayers, religious schools emphasize the Shabbat prayer service.

“When the Schechter kids daven, they use weekday tunes, which are often different from Shabbat tunes,” said Casser.

The day school and religious-school curricula diverge in other ways, which means the former day school students are being exposed to new or different material.

“We have found that our Judaic curriculum is broader, and much less intensely focused. Many of the topics we discuss are never touched in the day school,” said Melissa Weiner, director of education and life-long learning at Morristown Jewish Center Beit Yisrael. “While they are studying Talmud and Rashi, we tend to study topics that relate more directly to the things we need the kids to know to live Jewishly — life cycles, Torah study, holidays. We never get in depth in the hours we have the way a day school does, so we focus on the bigger picture.”

Weiner said she occasionally has students coming to her school from nearby HAMC.

But families sometimes see things differently from education directors. Religious schools that meet for five or fewer hours a week obviously cannot offer the intensity of a day school’s five-day-a-week, half-day Jewish curriculum.

One religious school in Morris County combines the religious school and day school students for b’nei mitzva classes. A parent of a day school student who attends the program, who asked not to be named, said, “We have had some issues. It’s been hard for the [day school] kids because they are so far ahead of the religious school kids. They are bored.”

Others resign themselves to what religious schools can offer. As Brian Schlesinger said, “I never expected Beth El to fully manage my kid’s matriculation into the Jewish Learning Center. I’m grateful they have someone who pulls the kids out of Hebrew class and works with them an hour a week to help them keep some of what they learned. I believe that’s probably the best they can do.”

Other parents opt out of religious school altogether and hire private tutors. One parent, who asked not to be named, pulled her son from Schechter at the end of fifth grade. She has hired a tutor not because she worries he will be bored in an afternoon religious school, she said, but because she wants him to keep up with the Schechter curriculum, just in case public school doesn’t work out.

If he doesn’t return to Schechter in a year, she said, “he will have to enroll in a more formal Hebrew school program.”

Rabbi Daniel Brenner, executive director of Birthright Israel Next, took his twin sons, Noam and Jonah, out of Schechter after fifth grade and enrolled them in Montclair public schools. He also hired a tutor. “Both of our sons expressed a desire to continue to study advanced Hebrew seriously. For this reason, we made modern Hebrew (Israeli literature, poetry, song, etc.) our first priority for their Jewish education,” he wrote in an e-mail from Israel. “This past year they did not attend religious school and were not tutored in the religious elements of Jewish education; they just focused on advanced Hebrew.”

But things are about to change for the brothers this year. Brenner wrote that he felt that as they head into preparations for their bar mitzva that “the experience is one that they are going through with peers.” They will attend the religious school at Bnai Keshet in Montclair, where they are members, and they will have additional private tutoring in both Hebrew and Talmud study.

Regarding the possibility of the twins’ being bored at the afternoon school, Brenner has some concerns, but hopes for the best. “Much of what will happen as far as content is concerned in religious school will be areas of ritual life that my sons have already covered. But I’m hoping that my sons will still enjoy it and will share the knowledge that they have with others in a positive way.”

The original article can be found here on the New Jersey Jewish News Website.